My Girl Smells AND She Makes My Dick Bend!

HI CRYSTAL! I'm having a little problem with my girl. When we start to make out and kiss and get naked she gets wet like crazy , but them she wants me to go down there and lick her and eat her out but it smells down there. Just smelling it makes me kinda grossed out. I want to do it to so bad!! What should i do. And another thing when we try to have sex when shes on top of me she makes my dick bend why is that? We always do the same position and its getting boring. I just wanna have fun!! Plz help.... Hello Allan,      Sorry to hear about your problem.  This is a commom issue with men and there are a few roads we can meander down.  One, let me start off my telling you that there are many men that wish they had your problem.  So many men wish their girls/wives got crazy wet.  Now as for the smell, I'm not sure if you are just offended by a strong vaginal odor or if the odor you are smelling is "fishy or seafood smelling".  If it is the latter of the two, it would lead me to believe that she may have a yeast infection ...she would know if she had vaginal itching or a greeninsh tinge to her discharge.  Or she may have chlamydia and have greyish discharge, or even have no symptoms at all.  Either way, I think she should visit her gynecologist just to be safe.  Both are easily treated, one with antibiotics, one with an OTC ointment or cream.  As far as your other problem, of your dick bending...this would lead me to believe that you aren't getting full, strong erections.  If it is only every once in a while, you could just grip the base of your cock to support it as she rides up and down.  But if it's happening often, you can look into getting a cock ring .  I have a lot of posts on my blog about them, why don't you read up on them while you are here! :-)  You can shop online, I have a great link to a website you can order one discreetly from, or you can just browse around a sex shoppe.  But, don't think I forgot you saying you were bored of the same old position...if your dick is only bending in this position, does it mean you aren't really mentally there so maybe you aren't into it enough for your cock to get all the way hard?  Why don't you change it up a little and have her ride reverse cowgirl so you can tickle her ass with your fingers?  Or spoon her and lift her top leg in the air so she has some room to diddle around down there with her fingers?  I hope this helped...  Keep me informed!

Vaginal Tightening Cream

Jessica says:      I was wondering if there really is anything out that that can make your pussy tighter. My boyfriend of 4 years says its alright but I wanted to know if there is a way to make it tighter. Does it matter that I have had 2 kids.  Hi Jessica,       This is a hard question for me.  A lot of the answers I give people here I give from experience and studies but on this one, I am baffled.  If you are wondering if there is a "product" out there that claims it can, yes there is.  There are vaginal rejuvenation surgeries that are very expensive that are said to tighten up your vagina.  But I don't know how comfortable I would be having someone with a scalpel poking at my hoohaa.  Kegel exercises have been around for a while and can be practiced and performed anywhere without anyone ever knowing you were doing them.  Not only that, but you can perform Kegels as you are having sex and drive your man crazy.  Whether you think you aren't as tight as you used to be or not, you should be squeezing down on him anyway, that is a great feeling for men.  There are also claims of "creams" or "ointments" that you can spread around down there and inside that are said to make you tighter.  I have never used these products and even as I do research on them, many of them don't contain reviews.  The majority of these products don't have a "How it Works" section on them and the couple that do talk about Oak Gall, a growth found on trees in only a few places in the world.  This extract is said to be the active ingredient and that it has been used in Asia since like the dawn of time by women after child birth.  If you aren't particularly sensitive down there, I would say go for it and check it out.  Maybe it will work, if not, at least it gave you a fun idea to try something out and jump in the sack.  If you do end up trying something out, please email me back and review it for me.  I will show you a couple products below that are said to tighten the vagina. Thanks again Jessica!    

Sex Addiction - Take the Quiz - Are you an Addict?

We all know that there was some heavy sexual tension between Mulder and Sc ully as we sat holding our breath during every X-Files episode .   But did we ever think it was possible for Mulder to be a sex addict ?!   Hell no!   So maybe he and Scully were really gettin’ it on behind the scenes, between scenes and even after the scenes were over…we will never know. With David Duchovny’s new cry for help as a sex addict , it has been bringing up a lot of questions regarding what makes someone a sex addict.   When you get to the real definition of what a sex addict is, it seems pretty serious.   Is this Duchovny’s way of getting some publicity, or is he as really serious as the disease itself?   Let’s define sex addiction. A sex addict is someone who can answer yes to more than a couple of these questions:    1. Do you keep secrets about your sexual or romantic activities from those important to you? Do you lead a double life? 2. Have your needs driven you to have sex in places or situations or with people you would not normally choose? 3. Do you find yourself looking for sexually arousing articles or scenes in newspapers, magazines, or other media? 4. Do you find that romantic or sexual fantasies interfere with your relationships or are preventing you from facing problems? 5. Do you frequently want to get away from a sex partner after having sex? Do you frequently feel remorse, shame, or guilt after a sexual encounter? 6. Do you feel shame about your body or your sexuality, such that you avoid touching your body or engaging in sexual relationships? Do you fear that you have no sexual feelings, that you are asexual? 7. Does each new relationship continue to have the same destructive patterns which prompted you to leave the last relationship? 8. Is it taking more variety and frequency of sexual and romantic activities than previously to bring the same levels of excitement and relief? 9. Have you ever been arrested or are you in danger of being arrested because of your practices of voyeurism, exhibitionism, prostitution, sex with minors, indecent phone calls, etc.? 10. Does your pursuit of sex or romantic relationships interfere with your spiritual beliefs or development? 11. Do your sexual activities include the risk, threat, or reality of disease, pregnancy, coercion, or violence? 12. Has your sexual or romantic behavior ever left you feeling hopeless, alienated from others, or suicidal? The National Council on Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity has defined sexual addiction as “engaging in persistent and escalating patterns of sexual behavior acted out despite increasing negative consequences to self and others.”   The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Psychiatric Disorders, Volume Four says sex addiction also involves “compulsive searching for multiple partners, compulsive fixation on an unattainable partner, compulsive masturbation, compulsive love relationships and compulsive sexuality in a relationship.” So what do you think?   Are you a sex addict?   Leave comments, I’m curious to know how many of us are scratching our heads right now…